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It is brought down that if the shadchan is particular about not receiving their due payment, it can cause harm, chas v'shalom, to the couple. Therefore, people are careful to pay the shadchan even if they don't demand payment and even explicitly say they don't want money. Nevertheless, we are concerned there shouldn't be damage to the couple, and we also try to satisfy with payment those who assisted with the shidduch. If there were several shadchanim who suggested the shidduch or several who helped complete it - one should clarify with a Rav how much and to whom payment is due. | It is brought down that if the shadchan is particular about not receiving their due payment, it can cause harm, chas v'shalom, to the couple. Therefore, people are careful to pay the shadchan even if they don't demand payment and even explicitly say they don't want money. Nevertheless, we are concerned there shouldn't be damage to the couple, and we also try to satisfy with payment those who assisted with the shidduch. If there were several shadchanim who suggested the shidduch or several who helped complete it - one should clarify with a Rav how much and to whom payment is due. | ||
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