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[[File:אהל הרבניות בליובאוויטש.jpg|thumb|250px|The ohel of the Rebbetzins in [[Lubavitch]]: Rebbetzin Sterna, Rebbetzin [[Sheina (wife of the Mitteler Rebbe)|Sheina]] (wife of the [[Mitteler Rebbe]]), and Rebbetzin [[Chaya Mushka Schneersohn (wife of the Tzemach Tzedek)|Chaya Mushka]] (wife of the [[Tzemach Tzedek]])]]
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'''Rebbetzin Sterna''' was the wife of [[the Alter Rebbe]], the first leader of Chabad Chassidus.


== Life History ==
Rebbetzin '''Sterna''' was the wife of the [[Alter Rebbe]], the first Rebbe of [[Chabad Chassidus]].
She was born to Reb Yehuda Leib Segal, who was among the distinguished members of the Vitebsk community and an eighth-generation descendant of the Maharil Segal, and her mother Beila.


On the 12th of Menachem Av 1760, she married Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi. At the time of the wedding, the bride's family was unaware of his involvement with Chassidim. When this became known, the bride's parents demanded that she divorce him, but she refused and was moser nefesh for her husband. It is said that when she would provoke him, she would become ill for three days. When she asked her husband why he was particular with her, he responded that he was not particular at all, for if he were, she would have been ill for nine days.
== Life ==


For 14 years after their marriage, the Rebbetzin and the Alter Rebbe had only daughters. After receiving a bracha from the Maggid of Mezritch, who instructed them to excel in hachnosas orchim, they were blessed with three sons: the Mitteler Rebbe, Rabbi Chaim Avraham, and Rabbi Moshe. Following the Maggid's instructions, throughout each pregnancy, she would drink a glass of milk with honey every night.
Rebbetzin Sterna was born to R' [[Yehudah Leib HaLevi Segal (father-in-law of the Alter Rebbe)|Yehudah Leib HaLevi Segal]], one of the leading figures of the [[Vitebsk]] community and an eighth-generation descendant of the [[Rabbi Yaakov ben Moshe Moelin|Maharil Segal]], and to her mother Marat Beila.


When her husband, the Alter Rebbe, arrived in Liozna and saw thousands of chassidim approaching his house through his windows, he began rolling on the floor crying out in humility and distress, "What do they want from me, what have they found in me?" His wife, the Rebbetzin, approached and told him, "They're not coming to you, but because you are a talmid of the Maggid of Mezritch - they want you to tell them about him." Her husband responded, "If so, then I will tell them," and received the thousands of chassidim.
On [[12 Menachem Av|the 12th of Menachem Av]], [[5520]] (1760), she married Rabbi [[Shneur Zalman of Liadi]]. At the time of the wedding, the bride's family was unaware of his involvement with the Chassidic movement, and when this became known, her parents pressed their daughter to divorce him. She refused, and devoted herself entirely to her husband. It is told, however, that when she would provoke him she would fall ill for three days; when she asked her husband why he was displeased with her, he replied that he was not displeased with her at all — for had he truly been displeased, she would have fallen ill for nine days.


Her mesiras nefesh for her husband continued even after he became well-known. When they first came to arrest him and he was hiding from the soldiers, they forcefully demanded that she reveal his whereabouts. When she stubbornly refused to reveal anything, one of the soldiers struck her face with such force that it knocked out two of her teeth.
For fourteen years after the wedding, only daughters were born to the Rebbetzin and the Alter Rebbe. After receiving the blessing of the [[Maggid of Mezeritch]] — who instructed them to be especially diligent in the mitzvah of hachnasat orchim, welcoming guests<ref>As the Maggid expressed it, drawing on the verse in Psalms 119: "How shall a youth keep his way pure? — by welcoming his guest."</ref> — they were blessed with three sons: the [[Mitteler Rebbe]], Rabbi [[Chaim Avraham Schneuri|Chaim Avraham]], and Rabbi [[Moshe Schneuri|Moshe]]. In keeping with the Maggid's instruction, throughout each pregnancy the Rebbetzin drank a cup of milk with honey every night.


After the Alter Rebbe's histalkus, she moved to live in her grandson the Tzemach Tzedek's house in Lubavitch, whom she had raised since he was a young child and was like a mother to him.
When the Alter Rebbe arrived in [[Liozna]] and saw thousands of Chassidim streaming toward his home, he began rolling on the floor in anguish, crying out in humility: "What do they want from me? What have they found in me?" His wife the Rebbetzin approached him and said: "They are not coming because of you — they are coming because you are a disciple of the Maggid of Mezeritch. They want you to tell them of him." He replied: "In that case, I will tell them" — and he received the thousands of Chassidim.<ref>Farbrengen of Purim 5747, ''Hisva'aduyos'', vol. 2, p. 1072.</ref>


She merited long life, living until the days of her grandson the Tzemach Tzedek's nesius.
Her self-sacrifice on her husband's behalf continued even after he became widely known. The first time soldiers came [[Arrest and Liberation of the Alter Rebbe|to arrest him]], he was in hiding, and the soldiers demanded that she reveal his whereabouts. When she steadfastly refused to disclose anything, one of the soldiers struck her forcefully across the face, knocking out two of her teeth.


Her exact dates of birth and passing are unknown.
After the [[passing]] of the [[Alter Rebbe]], she moved into the home of her grandson the [[Tzemach Tzedek]] in [[Lubavitch]] — whom she had raised from early childhood and who regarded her as a mother. She lived to an advanced age, into the years of her grandson's leadership as Rebbe.
 
Her dates of birth and passing are not known.


== Family ==
== Family ==
* Her daughter, [[Rebbetzin Freida Kluzker|Rebbetzin Freida]] - married Rabbi Eliyahu Klutzker
 
* Her daughter, [[Rebbetzin Devorah Leah Altshuler|Rebbetzin Devorah Leah]] - married [[Rabbi Shalom Shachna Altshuler]]
* Her daughter [[Freida (daughter of the Alter Rebbe)|Rebbetzin Freida]] married Rabbi [[Eliyahu Klotzker (son-in-law of the Alter Rebbe)|Eliyahu Klotzker]].
* Her daughter, Rebbetzin Rachel - married Rabbi Avraham Sheines
* Her daughter [[Devorah Leah (daughter of the Alter Rebbe)|Rebbetzin Devorah Leah]] married Rabbi [[Shalom Shachna Altschuler (father of the Tzemach Tzedek)|Shalom Shachna Altschuler]].
* Her son, Rabbi DovBer, [[the Mitteler Rebbe]] - married Rebbetzin Sheina Shneuri
* Her daughter [[Rochel (daughter of the Alter Rebbe)|Rebbetzin Rochel]] — married Rabbi [[Avraham Sheines (son-in-law of the Alter Rebbe)|Avraham Sheines]].
* Her son, [[Rabbi Chaim Avraham Schneuri|Rabbi Chaim Avraham]]
* Her son [[Rabbi Dovber Schneuri (Mitteler Rebbe)|Rabbi Dovber, the Mitteler Rebbe]] married Rebbetzin [[Rebbetzin Sheina|Sheina Schneuri]].
* Her son, Rabbi Moshe - married Mrs. Shifra Shneuri of the Rivlin family
* Her son [[Chaim Avraham (son of the Alter Rebbe)|Rabbi Chaim Avraham]].
* Her son [[Moshe (son of the Alter Rebbe)|Rabbi Moshe]] — married [[Shprintza (daughter-in-law of the Alter Rebbe)|Shprintza Schneuri]], née Rivlin.
 
== Further Reading ==
 
* [[Beis Rebbe]], p. 158 (new edition)
* "A Star Behind the Curtain," supplement ''Nashei'' in the weekly ''Kfar Chabad'', issue 1885, p. 11
 
== Notes ==
 
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The ohel of the Rebbetzins in Lubavitch: Rebbetzin Sterna, Rebbetzin Sheina (wife of the Mitteler Rebbe), and Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka (wife of the Tzemach Tzedek)

Rebbetzin Sterna was the wife of the Alter Rebbe, the first Rebbe of Chabad Chassidus.

Life[edit | edit source]

Rebbetzin Sterna was born to R' Yehudah Leib HaLevi Segal, one of the leading figures of the Vitebsk community and an eighth-generation descendant of the Maharil Segal, and to her mother Marat Beila.

On the 12th of Menachem Av, 5520 (1760), she married Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi. At the time of the wedding, the bride's family was unaware of his involvement with the Chassidic movement, and when this became known, her parents pressed their daughter to divorce him. She refused, and devoted herself entirely to her husband. It is told, however, that when she would provoke him she would fall ill for three days; when she asked her husband why he was displeased with her, he replied that he was not displeased with her at all — for had he truly been displeased, she would have fallen ill for nine days.

For fourteen years after the wedding, only daughters were born to the Rebbetzin and the Alter Rebbe. After receiving the blessing of the Maggid of Mezeritch — who instructed them to be especially diligent in the mitzvah of hachnasat orchim, welcoming guests[1] — they were blessed with three sons: the Mitteler Rebbe, Rabbi Chaim Avraham, and Rabbi Moshe. In keeping with the Maggid's instruction, throughout each pregnancy the Rebbetzin drank a cup of milk with honey every night.

When the Alter Rebbe arrived in Liozna and saw thousands of Chassidim streaming toward his home, he began rolling on the floor in anguish, crying out in humility: "What do they want from me? What have they found in me?" His wife the Rebbetzin approached him and said: "They are not coming because of you — they are coming because you are a disciple of the Maggid of Mezeritch. They want you to tell them of him." He replied: "In that case, I will tell them" — and he received the thousands of Chassidim.[2]

Her self-sacrifice on her husband's behalf continued even after he became widely known. The first time soldiers came to arrest him, he was in hiding, and the soldiers demanded that she reveal his whereabouts. When she steadfastly refused to disclose anything, one of the soldiers struck her forcefully across the face, knocking out two of her teeth.

After the passing of the Alter Rebbe, she moved into the home of her grandson the Tzemach Tzedek in Lubavitch — whom she had raised from early childhood and who regarded her as a mother. She lived to an advanced age, into the years of her grandson's leadership as Rebbe.

Her dates of birth and passing are not known.

Family[edit | edit source]

Further Reading[edit | edit source]

  • Beis Rebbe, p. 158 (new edition)
  • "A Star Behind the Curtain," supplement Nashei in the weekly Kfar Chabad, issue 1885, p. 11

Notes[edit | edit source]

  1. As the Maggid expressed it, drawing on the verse in Psalms 119: "How shall a youth keep his way pure? — by welcoming his guest."
  2. Farbrengen of Purim 5747, Hisva'aduyos, vol. 2, p. 1072.