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M.robin at 19:19, 1 April 2025

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	Now, in each type of flow (the chitzonius and pnimiyus) there is an advantage that the other doesn't have: the level of "etzem" is revealed specifically through the pnimiyus flow (which is limited), but the pnimiyus is not possible without the precedence of the chitzonius (which is elevated and unlimited).		Now, in each type of flow (the chitzonius and pnimiyus) there is an advantage that the other doesn't have: the level of "etzem" is revealed specifically through the pnimiyus flow (which is limited), but the pnimiyus is not possible without the precedence of the chitzonius (which is elevated and unlimited).

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Raphaelwilmowsky at 20:18, 18 February 2025

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	In the Torah, we don't find explicit reference to making a Chuppah before a groom marries his betrothed. It only states "and who has betrothed a woman and not taken her," which refers to the taking of marriage. According to basic law, if he is intimate with her for the purpose of marriage, she is considered married.		In the Torah, we don't find explicit reference to making a Chuppah before a groom marries his betrothed. It only states "and who has betrothed a woman and not taken her," which refers to the taking of marriage. According to basic law, if he is intimate with her for the purpose of marriage, she is considered married.

	However, it is not the way of the Jewish people to conduct intimacy publicly, rather there are witnesses to this seclusion. Even if we say witnesses aren't required for ~~this~~, it still must be public, since blessings must be recited before the marriage and the Sheva Brachos (Seven Blessings) must follow. Therefore, our Sages established that the Chuppah should be at the place of marriage, and it has always been so, even in the time of the prophets, as it is written "like a groom emerging from his Chuppah" and "a bride from her Chuppah," and certainly this is how Moshe Rabbeinu led the Jewish people.		However, it is not the way of the Jewish people to conduct intimacy publicly, rather there are witnesses to this seclusion. Even if we say witnesses aren't required for the Chuppah, it still must be public, since blessings must be recited before the marriage and the Sheva Brachos (Seven Blessings) must follow. Therefore, our Sages established that the Chuppah should be at the place of marriage, and it has always been so, even in the time of the prophets, as it is written "like a groom emerging from his Chuppah" and "a bride from her Chuppah," and certainly this is how Moshe Rabbeinu led the Jewish people.

	The Rebbe's Chuppah was at night after tzeis hakochavim (nightfall).		The Rebbe's Chuppah was at night after tzeis hakochavim (nightfall).

Raphaelwilmowsky at 20:17, 18 February 2025

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	[[File:תמונה של חופה.jpg\|thumb\|A Chuppah]]		[[File:תמונה של חופה.jpg\|thumb\|A Chuppah]]
	The transition between Kiddushin (betrothal) and Nisuin (marriage) is accomplished through the '''Chuppah''', and completed when the Chosson and Kallah enter the "Yichud room."		The transition between Kiddushin (betrothal) and [[Marriage (Nisuin)\|Nisuin]] (marriage) is accomplished through the '''Chuppah''', and completed when the Chosson and Kallah enter the "Yichud room."

	At the Chuppah ceremony, a canopy is spread in advance over poles (the Chuppah), and the Chosson is led to it facing east. It is customary to conduct the Chuppah in the evening hours, after sunset or just before it. According to our custom, the Chuppah must be specifically under the open sky, which is a sign for being fruitful and multiplying "like the stars of heaven in abundance."		At the Chuppah ceremony, a canopy is spread in advance over poles (the Chuppah), and the Chosson is led to it facing east. It is customary to conduct the Chuppah in the evening hours, after sunset or just before it. According to our custom, the Chuppah must be specifically under the open sky, which is a sign for being fruitful and multiplying "like the stars of heaven in abundance."

Raphaelwilmowsky at 00:33, 30 January 2025

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	== In Chassidus ==		== In Chassidus ==
	~~Chuppah represents~~ the "makif" ~~(encompassing light)~~ for the ~~Chosson~~ and ~~Kallah~~ (the mashpia and mekabel, who in relation to the makif are ~~exactly~~ equal), which gives them the power for inner ~~unity~~.		The chuppah is the "makif" for the chosson and kallah (the mashpia and mekabel, who in relation to the level of makif are truly equal), which gives them the power for the inner yichud.

			Explanation of the concept: In every flow from mashpia to mekabel (who is not on the same level), there needs to be (before the actual flow) an "elevation" of the mekabel until they become worthy of receiving the flow. This initial drawing close and elevation is accomplished through a level that is higher than both the mashpia and mekabel together (which is the chuppah). This initial drawing close then enables the inner connection between them. The initial flow (which elevates the mekabel) is from the chitzoniyus of the mashpia to the chitzoniyus of the mekabel, and this enables the actual flow afterward from the pnimiyus of the mashpia to the pnimiyus of the mekabel.

			(More specifically, there are two types of flows: ruchnius and gashmius, and each has its own level of "chuppah".

			And even more specifically, within each level of chuppah itself there are two levels: kavod and chuppah, as we learn from the possuk "and over all the kavod a chuppah." Meaning: there are two levels of kavod, and each has its own level of "chuppah". And in Toras haChassidus this is explained in even more detail.)

			Now, in each type of flow (the chitzonius and pnimiyus) there is an advantage that the other doesn't have: the level of "etzem" is revealed specifically through the pnimiyus flow (which is limited), but the pnimiyus is not possible without the precedence of the chitzonius (which is elevated and unlimited).

Raphaelwilmowsky at 00:32, 30 January 2025

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	The transition between Kiddushin (betrothal) and Nisuin (marriage) is accomplished through the '''Chuppah''', and completed when the Chosson and Kallah enter the "Yichud room."		The transition between Kiddushin (betrothal) and Nisuin (marriage) is accomplished through the '''Chuppah''', and completed when the Chosson and Kallah enter the "Yichud room."

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The transition between Kiddushin (betrothal) and Nisuin (marriage) is accomplished through the '''Chuppah''', and completed when the Chosson and Kallah enter the "Yichud room."

At the Chuppah ceremony, a canopy is spread in advance over poles (the Chuppah), and the Chosson is led to it facing east. It is customary to conduct the Chuppah in the evening hours, after sunset or just before it. According to our custom, the Chuppah must be specifically under the open sky, which is a sign for being fruitful and multiplying "like the stars of heaven in abundance."

== The Mitzvah ==
In the Torah, we don't find explicit reference to making a Chuppah before a groom marries his betrothed. It only states "and who has betrothed a woman and not taken her," which refers to the taking of marriage. According to basic law, if he is intimate with her for the purpose of marriage, she is considered married.

However, it is not the way of the Jewish people to conduct intimacy publicly, rather there are witnesses to this seclusion. Even if we say witnesses aren't required for this, it still must be public, since blessings must be recited before the marriage and the Sheva Brachos (Seven Blessings) must follow. Therefore, our Sages established that the Chuppah should be at the place of marriage, and it has always been so, even in the time of the prophets, as it is written "like a groom emerging from his Chuppah" and "a bride from her Chuppah," and certainly this is how Moshe Rabbeinu led the Jewish people.

The Rebbe's Chuppah was at night after tzeis hakochavim (nightfall).

The clothes that the Chosson and Kallah wear at the Chuppah should be new.

The Chosson must wear a new kittel (white garment) at the Chuppah, and over the kittel he should wear a coat.

During the Chuppah, the Chosson should not have (in his pocket or hands) any items of silver, gold, precious stones, or the like. Also, before going to the Chuppah, the Chosson should untie all knots in his garments, including shoelaces and tie.

The Chosson and Kallah are escorted to the Chuppah with lit candles in hand by the "Shoshbinim" - two married couples. The custom is that the Chosson's Shoshbinim are the two fathers, and the Kallah's Shoshbinos are the two mothers.

If one of the mothers is pregnant or if a parent is in a second marriage - it's advisable that in addition to them, another married couple should serve as Shoshbinim.

== Location of the Chuppah ==
The Chuppah is conducted under the open sky, as a sign that their offspring should multiply like the stars of heaven. Even in winter when it's cold - the Chuppah is held under the open sky and not inside a hall. However, a hall that has a special opening in its ceiling for a Chuppah — the Chuppah may be held there initially, without any concern.

Under the Chuppah — the Kallah and all the Shoshbinim, both men and women, circle the Chosson seven times.

From the covering of the Kallah until after the seven circles, they play the niggun "Arba Bovos."

Some have the custom that Kohanim and parents bless the Chosson and Kallah, but the Rebbe opposed having Birchas Kohanim at the Chuppah ceremony.

It is the custom of Anash to show a video of the Rebbe during the Chuppah.

Afterward, they sing "Mi Adir etc., Hu Yevarech etc."

The Kallah stands to the right of the Chosson. And the one who recites the "Sheva Brachos" turns himself facing east.

Under the Chuppah, the Chosson and Kallah should think pure and holy thoughts of yiras shamayim (fear of Heaven), and pray to Hakadosh Baruch Hu that they merit to raise an upright, blessed generation.

== In Chassidus ==
Chuppah represents the "makif" (encompassing light) for the Chosson and Kallah (the mashpia and mekabel, who in relation to the makif are exactly equal), which gives them the power for inner unity.